Expectations:
In Merida, Mexico I expect to learn and speak Spanish more fluently. In addition, I expect to make new life-long connections with people I have never met in my life (including fellow students, Mexicans, Mayans, Yucatecans, y la familia.) I expect to have a considerable amount of fun while maintaining my grades. I expect to step out of my comfort zone and try something new and exciting. I expect to be able to play ‘la bateria’ (at least once) and make music with Mexican musicians I’ve never met.

Within the three months of living abroad, my
Spanish abilities have improved by leaps and bounds! Here, I made some
incredible friends and had some unforgettable experiences while performing well
in school and having the most fun possible. My comfort zone was tested a few
times, but the event was only positive (like spending a day in the Mayan city
of San Juan Chamula!) The only expectation I could not reach was playing the
drums here with other Mexican musicians – which isn’t too bad to miss
considering all the other amazing places/things I have visited/done here.
Stereotypes:
We have all heard stereotypes about Mexico and Mexicans, many are untrue, some are just too peculiar to deny (in our uncultured-American minds.) Here are a few I’ve thought of. All Mexicans have moustaches. Mexicans are usually Catholics. All Mexicans are hard workers (even children), and will work harder for less money. The Mexican police have to be paid off, often for no real reason. Drugs are readily available in Mexico due to their local production. All Mexicans can/will drink any American under the table, regardless of size or “drinking ability.” Mexicans are very sociable, friendly, and warm. Mexicans eat, sleep, and breathe futbol! Mexicans have a fabulous accent. Mexican families have at least 3 children and are very tight-knit. Rice and beans are eaten with every meal. And finally, you never talk about a Mexican’s mother or heritage!

So
I’ve learned a couple things here in Mexico about my previous stereotypes
(which we all acknowledge are not true), not all Mexicans have moustaches
– believe it or not! There IS a very large and dominant Catholic following here
in Mexico, and the public are generally very hard workers. The local police
were not as crooked as I had once thought, but can be paid off if any problems
arose. The stereotype that Mexicans can drink any American under the table is
surprisingly not entirely true, unless the challenge involves tequila. The
Mexican people are very warm, friendly, and sociable, willing to give you the
shirt off their back (depending on what pueblo or city you are in.) Futbol is a
very big deal here, and this stereotype has not changed, but why change
something fantastic?! Rice and beans are not eaten with every meal, but beans
are a staple food here, nearly served with every meal. Mexican families remain
close-knit, and yes, you must respect a Mexican mother and the Mexican
heritage… or else!